I was in a craft store yesterday and there was a Christmas stamp that said ‘Christmas is a time to reflect and spend time with the people you love.’ I looked around at all of the stressed out women rushing around buying decorations and wrapping paper and ribbons and tins to put holiday cookies in and if I had had a sharpie on me I would have changed the front to say ‘Christmas is a time when women do a lot of emotional and relational labour that goes largely unnoticed and is rarely reciprocated’.